1.He is straightforward
他很直接
He isn’t afraid to tell you “how it is”, and at first, this is a hard quality to come to terms with. A straightforward and honest man wants to really know what’s wrong because he wants to help. Unfortunately with this comes “tough love”, because you are going to hear things that you really don’t want to here. But, in the long run its best to here it head on and deal with it.
他不怕告诉你真实情况，首先，是一种很难得的品质。直接老实的男人想要知道到底是哪里出了问题因为他想要得到帮助。不幸的得到这样“艰难的爱”，因为你会听到你不愿意听见的。但是就长期而言这样是很好的，也便于你应对。
2.He can laugh at himself
你会自嘲
Life is tough, and it’s even tougher if you take it too seriously. That’s why it’s important to have a co-pilot who isn’t afraid to laugh at himself when things go to hell.
生活并不容易，如果你对此更严肃那就更不容易。这也是在事情变得很糟糕的时候有一个不怕自嘲的人共同面对很重要的原因。
3.He is generous with his time
他愿意花时间
It is a cliché, but we women like things—flowers, shoes, jewellery, chocolate. So we expect our man to give us these things and If he doesn’t deliver, he obviously doesn’t care about our relationship. A man who will give you his attention is more precious than that Coach bag you’ve been coveting. A man who values time and memories over material things is priceless.
这可能会有些迂腐，但是我们女人喜欢---鲜花，鞋子，首饰，巧克力等东西。所以我们都希望有人可以给我们这些东西，如果他没送那就是不在意我们的关系。一个愿意关注你的男人比包包更宝贵。一个看重时间和回忆的男人比这些物质更无价。
4.He is compassionate
他富有同情心
One of the most powerful emotions is empathy, or the ability to comprehend and embrace someone else’s trials . A man who can understand your sorrow but also take joy in your joy is beautiful. He always tries to put himself in other people’s shoes so he can see the world as it is.
一种很有能力的情感就是同情心或者理解包容别人缺点的能力。一个能明白你的悲伤、懂得你快乐的男人才更好。他总是站在别人的角度思考问题这样他才能看见整个世界。
5.He learns from his mistakes
他能从错误中吸取教训
By default, we humans are all imperfect creatures and make more mistakes than we will ever admit. Given that, the best quality a man can possess is the ability to say “I was wrong” and to move forward to fix it. A good man will admit he is wrong, a great man will admit he is wrong and will become a better person because of it.
我们人类是不完美的生物，我们都会犯错，往往犯下的错比我们认识到的错误要多。即使是那样，一个男人最好的品质就是具备那种承认错误并积极改正的能力。一个好男人会承认自己的错误，一个优秀男人会承认他的错误并因此而变成一个更好的人。
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