Getting hitched is a big deal, but if you do your research right, the ride can be a lot smoother than the rocky road everyone is warning you about. So how can you prepare? Here are ten ways to get you started.
结婚是件大事，但是如果你研究过，这段路走起来比别人告诫你的坎坷路要顺畅得多。所以你能怎么准备？这里列举了开始的4种方式。
1. How does your partner like their eggs in the morning?
你的另一半喜欢早上吃鸡蛋吗？
It’s little treats like this that remind your spouse how glad they are that they married you, and you’ll remember how much you’re willing to do for them, too. So find out, now, before getting married: how do they like their eggs?
这样的小花样会让你的另一半记住他和你结婚是多么的开心，你也会记得你有多愿意为他做这些。所以，现在调查一下，在结婚之前弄清楚：他们喜欢吃鸡蛋吗？
2. You’ve already explored their flaws—but what about your own?
你已经见识过了他的缺点—但是你自己的呢？
Enter your marriage aware that you will sometimes clash, because you’re both human. You won’t always be right or win the argument; sometimes you will be the one to blame and remembering this will help you cut them some slack when they get things wrong. Know yourself, know when you are making mistakes and get ready to fix them and apologize.
走进一段婚姻你就得意识到你有时候发火，因为你们只是普通人。你不会总是对的或者能在争论中获得胜利。有时候你会是那个被责备的人。当别人犯错的时候会帮助你宽恕别人。了解你自己，知道什么时候你会犯错，准备去纠正错误，道歉。
3. What are your partner’s favorite things?
你的另一半最喜欢的是什么？
When those thunder storms crash straight into your life, what will comfort your spouse? Prepare yourself for those rainy days by finding out before getting married.
当这些问题直接进入你们的生活的时候，什么能安抚你的另一半？在结婚之前将这些弄清楚让自己为这些不好的日子准备好。
You both know you love each other, but do you know what you both love? Find a sport, a hobby, a dance class, anything that you can do once a week that gets friends involved. The key is giving each other plenty of chances to keep falling in love for years to come.
你们都知道你们彼此相互喜欢，但是你知道你们俩都喜欢什么嘛？找一个运动班，兴趣班，舞蹈班，任何你们能和朋友一起一周一次的活动。这是让彼此有足够的机会相爱的关键。
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